S1 Ep79: The Side Effects of People Pleasing

Hello my faves. Today on the pod we discuss the long history in my own life of people pleasing, and how it requires us to shut ourselves down to the point where we lose contact with who we are and what we need.

The result of years of this behavior? Lots of pain and symptoms that are felt in our bodies, as our hearts simply have no more room to spare.

Join me as we delve into exactly what people pleasing is, why we do it, and why it is so important to create a steam valve for the related feelings to be released. You may not be ready to change your people pleasing behaviors, which is fine, but there must be space for the YOU in your life, and I will help you make some.

(Bonus performance by Charlotte Sachs at the end: The Ballad of Love and Hate by the Avett Brothers :)

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Producer: Lisa Eisenpresser

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